How do you know you've found your soulmate?

I would say, once you feel absolutely complete, you have found your soulmate. Complete in the sense, you are in love, blissfully happy, in a healthy relationship, have great communication, and y'all make each other better... You have found that special love. Relationships are suppose to cause two people to grow individually and together as one...if your love relationship has done that you probably found your soulmate. But most importantly, the love shouldn't cause you or your partner pain ever, yes... you will have disagreements & arguments but you will never feel pain with that person. Because a soulmate bond is based on pure love and that type of love is only found by few and that love is always incredible.

I don't believe in the fairytale theory about soulmates anymore, that there is only one soulmate for each person. I believe there are many soulmates out there for each of us and they don't have to just be lovers... They can be your best friend or a family member, I also believe sometimes we never meet them. I believe love sometimes blinds our logic from what we should have and we often end up with someone that is less than what we deserve. I believe to find your soulmate you have to be prepared mentally, emotionally, physically, and even spiritually to deal with such an intense love. You cannot be unevolved in love (immature) to find your soulmate, just like you can't be broken from past relationships. You will only find your soulmate when you are completely whole inside & out.

To be whole completely is a challenge, it starts with alot of forgiving and finding yourself. Constantly cleaning your inner being from hurt, pain, and insecurity. If you are not completely in love with yourself, you will never love anyone with your all or find anyone that can love you the way you need and want to be loved. That's why very few find their soulmate because most people don't want to do the inner work in themselves first. They just want this big extraoridinary love to show up not realizing they probably won't be able to hold on to it.

Even if you never find your soulmate, you can still find a great love. To find and keep any type of love, I can't stress enough how important it is to heal from past pain or to do some soul searching or learn to fall in love with yourself. The secret to a great relationship is... It start with you as an individual. And if or when you find your soulmate, everything will seem brighter and better & you will just know deep inside. Your love for them will be unreal... Like never before and never again:)

Favorite quote: "there is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved"

Until next time:)