Forgiveness

Most people get confused with understanding what forgiveness is all about, they often think forgiveness means accepting a person apology or just forgetting what one done to you. The meaning of forgiveness is beyond that in every shape and form, it's one of most beautiful things you can give to yourself. Yes, yourself... The meaning of Forgiveness is for You. To forgive is to release yourself of pain, hurt, & burden. To put love and compassion back into your heart and to let go of what you can't change, to give life to tomorrow.

Forgiveness is acceptance that life goes on after hurt, after fear, after pain. It's acceptance to what is. It's acceptance that our fellow humans make mistakes. It's acceptance that love is the only way. Forgiveness is forgiving yourself for allowing such circumstances to happen but knowing those circumstances do not control you or the life you choose to live on this Earth. Forgiveness is not saying you are forgetting what happen but more of you are acceptancing what has happen and choosing to live in love anyway. That, what has happen does not break you but make you wiser in your quest.

You cannot change what people decide to do with their actions, you can only control your reaction to those decisions. Those reactions that you make decide if you want to move forward in love or fear... If you choose fear, which you have every right to choose, then you will not forgive, you will live in hate, you will hold grudges, you will live in anger and unhappiness, you will cut yourself off from others, & you may regret that decision later in life. Fear is not accepting, fear is what is killing our Earth, fear is what is causing us to disconnect from our love. Fear is isolation, fear kills your humanity, fear eventually kills you... The beautiful life you have to offer to others just by being in their presence.

Its okay to feel hurt at first, it's not in your best interest to dwell in the hurt for months or years to come. It only hurts you in the long run, not them. For their life will keep moving while yours stay at a stand still. Letting go is releasing their hold on you, it's releasing your pain. Living in love is knowing what may come your way big or small, bad or horrible, it came for a reason bigger than you & for your own waking up. In life things constantly come into your existence to evolve you into who you are meant to be. It's your choice to evolve or not to, to grow in love or disappear in fear. Forgiveness is love, you can change the course of your journey just by forgiving others which ultimately in the end is yourself.

Until next time:)