Monday, October 15, 2012

Love lost

Love that fades, will be hard to endure. Seeing them in the future and being total strangers. Loving them and hating them at the same time. Love that ended between two people is a lesson in life. You needed that experience to grow or to learn something you needed to learn. Everything that becomes apart of our lives are there because we wanted it. Nothing just happens, we actually called it into existance.

We choose how we live our life by the choices we make everyday. And that love got lost for a reason. Don't dwell on the love that was once shared because it mostly likely won't bring it back. You just have to evaluate what was the lesson and did you learn from it. Then you can move on stronger and better in a new direction.

You will hurt. The pain will be real. The tears will fall... Maybe everyday. & you will miss them constantly. But you will grow and it will push you forward. You may feel like you will never love again, but you will. You will be wiser. You will be more cautious. You will meet someone new.

However, the true test will be to keep your heart open. To not crumble under the pain and hurt. To understand that this was meant to happen cause everything happens for a reason. So mourn your lost. Cry until you can't cry anymore. Relieve the memories as many times as you want to. Miss them like crazy. But when you're ready...the soon the better... Let go. Be happy they came into your life and move on.

If that love was meant to be, nothing can stop it from being. If that love was just an experience then let it just be an experience. If that love was just a lesson then learn the lesson. Figure out what was the purpose of that love because it wasn't lost for nothing.

Until next time:)

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