It seem all "realness" is slowly fading away concerning friendships & relationships. No one is as loyal to or committed in preserving what two people share anymore. Forgiveness is at a all time low, nobody wants to fight for people they care about anymore. It's all about how they feel or how much they feel offended, that caring about another person feelings or understanding their point of view is not important. We truly live in the most selfish, self interest, self indulging period in human history. We unappreciated the good in someone and celebrate the bad. It's almost like people feel more alive messing up good friendships and relationships than they get pleasure from enjoying them.
At one time period, friendship with someone was like having another brother or sister. Sometimes that person was even closer. Y'all spent time together, talk together, shared memories. But when y'all fought... Hours later y'all was close again like nothing happened. Yea, people held grudges but not on the level it is nowadays, people hold grudges for decades. The word friendship have no meaning anymore because everybody have an hidden agenda. Nobody want to work to build and keep a good bond with one another, or cherish each other presence in their lives. Everybody want it their way, if you not doing what they want you to do then they kicking you to the curve or slowly pushing you away.
It's even worst for relationships. The value of real relationships is at -20. Nobody in this broken society gives 100 percent to their mate in relationships. You get what you get and when you aren't getting it anymore, you move on to the next. People are not investing energy, time, and communication to their love ones. Again, you get what you get... If its not enough... Oh well. Love isn't strong intimately like in the old days (I know I'm young lol), whereas, your girl was your girl and your man was your man and nothing was messing that up. Yes, cheating always existed but was it really like it is now? People are having sex like STD's are a thing of the past. Loyalty... What loyalty? Commitment... What commitment? Honesty... That been dead.
Married couples are acting single, like vows don't matter. Couples in relationships are basically sex buddies. And single people are lonely as hell because they are scared to get involve with anyone because the values in relationships are not taken seriously. So most single people rather just mess around to barely get their needs met.
There is so much confusion going around because nobody knows what they want from another. And unfortunately game playing is the safest way not to get hurt. People always say they want the real deal but they just are not willing to get it and keep working to keep it. Once people get something good they let it fall on the back burner. If something is lacking or missing in a person there is no more compromising. It seems everything that is invaluable is not valued and everything that is not valuable is treated like it is.
So on that note, if you feel you have something real with somebody (friendship or relationship) work to keep it. If you feel you don't have anything real but family keep your family close. If you feel you have absolutely nothing real... All I can say is start building a true relationship with God and pray someone extraordinary enter into you life.
Until next time:)
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