So I was talking to a real cheater and he informed me of some interesting information. And I got to admit, it made sense. I'm talking about men that take care of home, bills, their kids, are in a relationship with one women for years or even married types of men. So No... i'm not talking about younger guys (see older posts on cheating) i'm talking about older cheaters. Okay now i'll share.
A man seriously could love everything about you and truly love you. He can love the home ya'll built together, the children ya'll made together, the life ya'll have together. You can think you're doing everything to make him happy. And he can be doing everything to make you happy. But you find out or suspect another female and wonder why would he destroy everything to cheat? Simple, men don't think like you.
Men have several reasons for cheating but theres nomore than four. But we are talking about older men so two. 1. He's unsatisfied, 2. Fetishes. I know how that sounds but keep reading.
If he is unsatisfied, it has nothing to do with love, he will seek else where. His heart may belongs to you but his pleasure doesn't. Females can put the needs of her family before hers but guys can't, it's that simple. If the sex is boring, he's going to want fun, spontaneous sex. New vagina bets old vagina any day. If ya'll have sex once a week, he's not satisfied. If he loves oral sex and you're bad or okay, he's not satisfied. And this have nothing to do with if he's satisfying you. See, he's not going to tell you after years of togetherness what you are doing wrong. He rather go find it else where instead of coming to you for you just to get mad. That's an unwanted arguement. No woman wants to be told that she's doing something wrong or she's not enough. So he's not going to tell you. He probably told you in the beginning but as time pass, life got hecked. You use to do stuff you don't do now... you're tired. Or he never told you what he wanted sexually like you didn't. So he will cheat to get the pleasure he think about all day, that you are not giving to him. And he won't tell you because he don't want you to leave him.
Fetishes. Now if he like long hair and you chop you hair off to get a halle berry look. You may look cute but he may cheat with a long hair chick until you're hair grow back. If he likes feet and your feet look like grandma's, he may cheat with a girl with pretty feet. If he want someone with ambition and you rather be a mom or lazy, he may get a side chick who's ambitious. If he loves a thick girl and you turned into an overly obese super thick girl, he may cheat with a skinnier chick. If he likes a different nationality and you're his race, he may cheat with a spanish, asian, or white chick. If he loves porn and you made him get rid of it, he may have a secret stash or may be making personal porn with another chick. If he likes sexy lingerie and you wearing laundry day draws, he may cheat with a chick that only wear thongs. But with fetishes he wants to experience it but he knows where home is. Meaning, he love his fetish but love you more. Like chocolate, you don't want it everyday, just sometimes.
Most guys will risk everything just to get these two things including you. Dumb yes, understanding... I get it. Questions leave below lol.
Until next time:)
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