Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Are females quick to move on?

There are two possible answers to that question. Yes, if you where lacking at something but treat her fairly well. No, if you treated her bad and that was why ya'll parted. I know that sound weird but it's also true... maybe with a few exceptions. I'll explain why.

If you treated her well and you consider yourself a good boyfriend to her. But ya'll broke up from let's say... technical difficulties. And you and her weren't broken up that long but she's already dating again. Now you're thinking "really... that fast?". She moved on to someone else "that fast" because she was missing something extremely bad. Missing what? Let's see... satisfying sex, a listening ear, fun, passionate kisses, one on one time, basis human attention, romance, or she wanted out (fear). You may say, "hey, I gave her that", yea but not to the best of your ability. How do I know? Because, it's the way of life now, you start to get so comfortable with each other that things start to fade. The once a week nights out turns into once a whenever I feel like it, the long steamy makeout sessions turns into tap kisses, the I want to hear everything turns into not now... i'm busy, saying "I love you" 10x or more a day turns into ''I love you, goodnight". Things change and we females crave that, it never stops even after years of being with you. So if you stopped doing what you did in the beginning when you wanted to hook us, when it's over she's going to try to find that as quick as possible (with someone else of course).

Now I mention she might've wanted out because of fear. Males are not the only one with commitment issues. Some females can be with you for years but once you bring up marriage, she's gone. Then theres some females who will even go through an engagement and seem happy. But the longer she engaged the more shes thinking, which in the end shes still gone. It's called fear of being with one man for the rest of her life. The non-fairytale syndrome.

Now, if you were a horrible boyfriend... cheated, lied, disrespectful, etc. When ya'll break up she won't be so quick to move on. Reason being she scared she will meet another you. So pretty much it may take alot of months even years to trust another guy. Dating around and actual relationship are to different things. So relationship wise it will take awhile. And if she got children... maybe even decades.
Until next time:)

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