Sunday, January 2, 2011

Learn to love yourself

Loving youself is one of the most important things you can do. It's so important in every aspect of your life. If you don't love you, nothing in your life will be right. Knowing your self worth makes any relationship in your life worth while. For example: No man will ever love you the way you want to be love, if he can't see the way you love yourself. When you don't love yourself,you can not respect yourself. Meaning he won't respect you ever. You will put up with more things than you can take, and everything will go wrong.

One of the main problems in relationships is a person will start loving the other more than they love themselves. You will put up with his/her constant disrespect because you don't respect yourself enough not to. You will stay unhappy with someone because you don't make yourself happy. You will change for all the wrong reasons because you can't change for yourself. People that don't love themselves can't become better individuals. They get stuck in a place that is unhealthy for themselves and others. They don't grow and/or make others grow, they bring others down while bringing themselves down also.

When you love yourself... become truly in love with yourself. No one will be able to make you lower yourself. You'll become happy with or without someone. Your joy will come from your inner self, and not from another person. You'll become connected with who you are inside. You'll know what you do and do not want from others. You'll gain such a high respect for yourself that others will see it a mile away. You'll become beautiful inside and out to yourself and others. Nothing will change your emotions for long because your happiness will depends on yourself. Nothing will be able to stop you from where you're going because you won't allow anyone to.

When you love every inch of your being... then you can fully give someone your all. You will pick nothing but others that love themselves because that's what you will attract. When you are whole you attract other whole beings making it possible to be whole together. You will never second guess your decisions because you will have absolute trust in yourself. Only through self love can you find true love and joy. If you can't love yourself then no one will. Only you can create your self worth, don't let someone else do that because they will never get it right. Take back that power and learn to get to the best form of you through your love for yourself.
Until next time:)

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