R Kelly song is very much true. When a woman is in love, it's not make pretend, it's the real thing. She really loves for real. We tend to get so caught up in a guy that we begin to lose ourself. Everything is on max for us, our love, trust, unrational thinking, everything. We blind ourself to the bad and only see the good side of things. We become good at making excuses or not facing the reality. Our loyalty is on an unbelievable level, we stay through thick and thin.
It's a woman loyalty that makes it hard to let go. We get so wrapped up in a guy when we fall in love that we stay no matter what. Our loyalty makes it so hard to make us not want to start over. We start believing that our love will change the man we are with. That with time and effort and love we can change him into what we want him to be. So we stick it out through the good, bad, and really ugly, hoping things will change.
Women fall so deep in love, that it's really unconceivable.
We can want to leave you but we will stay. You can treat us like crap and we will still stand by you. You can beats us and we will pray our love will change you. You can cheat and lie and we will tell you we won't take it but still be there years later. They say don't play with a woman's heart because our emotions get the best of us.
Truly all logic goes out the window, it's all emotions for us. And sadly our emotions tells us to stay when we really need to go. We will put up with so much before we snap back to reality and logically perceive the true nature of the situation. We will give you all the love we have as it drains the happiness away from our bodies. We will give you the last of our being until we are walking zombies. You may even ask yourself... Why the hell do she stay? It's because the love she feels for you is overwhelming and she can't let you go. Now I'm not talking about when it's just comfortable for her to stay with you (babies, lifestyle, money) that's not being in love. I'm talking about when there's little reason to why she's still with you.
Now when a woman does finally let go of you, you will notice. She will be feed up with all your dirt and become unrecognizable to you. Seriously you won't even be able to get a hug. You will be able to tell she's done. OR she will be filled with so much hatered towards you. The Bible warns of this "Hell has no fiery like a woman scorn." It will be like she's became a VooDoo witch overnight. Again, we act on our emotions and if our heart is broken bad we can be like a stranger or a nightmare.
I say if you are not serious or don't want a serious relationship, tell her off back. If you got a wifey and you messing around be single. Don't drag a woman's emotions through a rocky road just let her go to be love by someone that can love her back. Don't damage her perception of love because you are a fool. If you are asking yourself.. why hasn't she left me?.. then maybe you should let her go. Stop waiting for her to let you go or keep her holding on until you're ready to change. Let it go because at the end of it all you will be left with three bad outcomes a comfortable woman (don't care what you do as long as she's taken care of). A feed up woman (a stranger that don't want you near her and secretly hates you). Or a scorn woman (the female reincarnation of the devil).
Until next time:)
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