Women are very hard to catch cheating...that's a fact. Women think, plan, and are sneaky. I will try to explain objectively and fairly because I've never cheated. But I can look from a woman point of view. I can only think of two reasons why women cheat. One: their upbringing (her momma got around or something terrible happening in her life). Two: men (he broke her heart or many broke her heart).
Some people don't understand that your childhood determines your grown up life. Most of the times what her parents or role model was doing when she was younger, she is going to do too. If her mom was doing the "so I creep" dance over town, she or one of her sisters will. Not saying every bad role model will turn her life into the negative because some promise themselves never to be like that person.
And if she ever went through some unbelieveable events in life like being raped, prosituting, kidnapped, etc. Forget it... it will be too hard to stop her because she probably HATE men and will never trust you enough to be fully yours.
Broken hearts... theres nothing like it.... the feeling is horrible and can change you. If she got her heart broken too many times in the past and said she would never let it happen again. I can bet she's cheating because she will never completely commit to you. Her heart is literally frozen numb, she doen't know what trust is anymore.
Then theres YOU... you are the reason she is cheating on you. She found out about your dirt and felt it was revenge time. Will you ever catch her... probably not... will you know... yes. She will start acting real different with you. She will buy sexy clothes or lingerie but only wear it when she's not out with you. She starts being okay with not spending time with you. She not nagging or complaining much like before. She's going out with her "friends" way more than usual. She super happy and you know it's not because of you. Sorry but she's cheating or very close too cheating.
See women don't brag about sleeping around like guys because we get criticized from male and females. While males just hear it from women, so women may only tell their best friend that's it. Here's a test fellas, women will keep conversations... idk why but we do. So ask for her laptop or phone, she will fight but you will get it or a confession. Check text messages or emails, she will most likely have every message. Now, if shes a pro... but you have a strong feeling she is dipping on you lol leave!!! because you will never find proof. Wait phone records... but that's too much work but what ever rock your boat.
Women are loyal by nature and it take alot to change into a unloyal person. Women are known for staying loyal to a guy that is horrible in bed, so we loyal. So if you are a good guy, it's not you... just her past that messed her up. If you are a bad boy, she giving you a taste of your own medicine. If she's pass the point of return (cheated more than 3 times on you), you can never change her. If you love her and want to help her get through her past, get her help asap. If you don't want to make it work... Move ON!!!!
Until next time:)
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