Teenage Love

My thoughts on teenage love takes me back to Taylor Swift song "Fifteen". You wanna believe that the boy you shared your first kiss with or that grab your hand and smile at you, will be with you forever. You day dream about them in class, you spy on their twitter and hope they're in your mentions. You write in your diary everyday about them because he makes you mad one day and the next you love him OD. You love the way he kiss you and hug you close. You hope the feeling you get being with him will last always because it's something you never felt before. Sometimes you wanna cry everytime he says something mean but forgives him when he says he's sorry. Ya'll argue all the time and you always tell yourself...that's it, you can do better. And you get so frustrated because you feel like you losing everything. Then he calls, and you get so happy and everything doesn't matter anymore.

The thing is you know he's not right and you know he won't change because he's immature. You keep trying with giving him chances, but the more you do the more you regret you did. You can't get the way it feels when he touches you out of your head and the tender kisses you and him share. You want to say goodbye but you won't mean it. He tells you he loves you and that he never love no other girl like he loves you, your heart melts because you believe him. Then you find out he's talking to other girls and it breaks your heart. You hate him, you say to yourself, how could he hurt you like that and then you cry yourself to sleep.

Young teenage girl, my advice to you is you have to learn on your own. Nothing I tell you will make you listen to me. As a teenager you are very hard headed and stubborn and that's why mothers are the number 1 person you clash with right now. But you have to understand you parent don't want their little girl to feel pain especially by a sweet talking little jerk. Your parent wants to protect you and comfort you and make you feel safe. So I will not tell you what to do but I will give you advice.

When he tells you he love you, it means he like you (it doesn't mean alot). Teenage boys don't think about being faithful, commited, in love, or your feelings. He only wants to have money, clothes, food, fun, laugh, party, hangout, makeout, and if he's sexually active...SEX! His number 1 enemy is being stressed and he will avoid it at all cost, including dumping you. They don't know what love is so they can't take any relationship serious. So teenage girls don't make decisions based on you emotions but by what you know what is right. If he disrespects you once he will keep doing so because you are allowing him too. If he ever hit you...RUN... because he will continue to do so (it doesn't mean he loves you). If you decide to have sex with him, please go to a female family member and get birth control and learn about protection. But know he will only start using you for it and you will regret having sex at an early age when you get older. Don't give your all because remember boys don't go on emotions, meaning he can change his mind about you at anytime. Don't stay with him because he was your first boyfriend, if your gut feeling tells you to move on, then move on, theres a million guys that will treat you better. NEVER feel like you are ugly, worthless or no one will want you because YOU are beautiful... you got him didn't you? Self confidence and personality is the most beautiful qualities you can have, YOU are one in 6.5 billion, no one else in the world is like you. Be proud of yourself and hug yourself everyday for being special and one of a kind. And stop following after others to fit in... stand out!!! so that means stop that smoking and drinking when you are partying or hanging out... yea i know!!!. Love you teenage girls....it's okay to cry...be strong... I survived and learned:)