Sometimes heartbreaks are tramatic and very painful. Also, the healing time vary from person to person. It's impossible to try to fix or heal your broken heart with words or instructions because everyone is different. So the cold turkey method mention in earlier posts, will not help your heart (it will just break the attachments).
I think there's only three things that can happen from a broken heart. You fall into a form of depression (lose yourself), Move on and let go (find someone new or yourself), or Find a way to cover up the pain (Unhealthy activities or substances). Of course, the best option is moving on because your heart is broken for a reason. But sometimes there's no one new or you just don't want a new relationship just yet. What to do?
Well I say work on yourself. Maybe being single can give you time to adjust the things that are out of line in your life. Try to fix the reasons to why your heart is broken or why your relationship went down hill in the first place. Finding yourself and enhancing the qualities that need work inside, only betters you within. Jumping from relationships doesn't solve the core problems that only you can fix, so let go and then work on yourself. If you become a great person from the inside out, you will only attract someone that is also great, probably finally giving you the relationship you really crave. Find yourself, work on yourself, become a better person for yourself....others... and in your life.
Until next time:)
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